1. Start Slow. Really Slow.
This isn’t a race. Take a few minutes to settle in—light a candle, grab your favorite blanket, put on a playlist that makes you feel like you. Touch your body without expectations. Let yourself be curious.
When you’re ready, place the toy gently over your clitoris (no pushing or jamming necessary) and see how your body reacts.
Little reminder: You’re not chasing orgasm—you’re building trust with your body. That’s where the real magic starts.
2. Add Lube—It’s a Game-Changer
Even with air suction toys, a little lube can go a long way. It helps create a soft, sealed feeling around the clitoris and makes everything feel smoother and less intense—especially if you’re sensitive or new to this kind of touch.
Choose a water-based lubricant (it’s toy-safe and easy to clean). A few drops is all you need.
3. Your Position Matters
Sometimes the difference between “meh” and “oh wow” is just a slight shift in how you’re lying down. Try reclining with your knees up, lying on your side, or sitting with legs apart. Move the toy gently until it finds that perfect spot.
You’ll know when you feel it—that subtle seal, that tiny pull, like a kiss in slow motion.
4. Keep It Low and Slow
Suction toys often come with multiple intensities. Start on the lowest one and stay there until your body invites more. Don’t feel like you have to use the strongest setting—sometimes less is more.
If you need a break, pause. If something doesn’t feel great, adjust. This is your time, your rules.
Think of it this way: You’re not performing. You’re exploring.
5. Upgrade to a Toy That Does More (But Keeps It Simple)
Once you’ve gotten a feel for suction, you might want a toy that adds a little something extra.
Take Liora by XReverie. She’s sleek, easy to hold, and beginner-friendly—with 10 suction modes and 8 vibration settings that let you play around with different sensations. The soft silicone feels smooth against your skin, and the waterproof body makes relaxing even easier.
Just turn it on, follow your mood, and let Liora do her thing. No pressure. Just pleasure.
Final Thoughts: Be Curious, Be Kind to Yourself
Using a sucking vibrator isn’t about doing it “right.” It’s about feeling safe, soft, open—and letting pleasure in, however it shows up. Toys like Liora are here to support that journey, not define it.
So go slow. Try new things. Laugh if something feels awkward. That’s part of it, too.
Whenever you’re ready—XReverie here with thoughtfully designed pleasure tools made to feel as good as they look.
